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September 30

life

我们这是在为谁而活着?
 
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May 31

男人真的都是这样的么?

今天看到一个总结男人的一段话,看了后有些感触
感叹男人:有才华的长的差,长的帅的挣钱少挣钱多的不顾家,顾了家的没出息,有出息的不浪漫,会浪漫的靠不住,靠得住的全窝囊,唉,男人!
貌似挺正确的,不过我不悲伤,我觉得我还真算是那个有才华,长得帅,挣钱多,顾家,有出息,会浪漫,靠得住,不窝囊的男人!!!
还有一句话,我是个非常谦虚和低调的男人
February 13

祝我自己生日快乐

今天这个日子是值得纪念的 又到生日了 又老了一岁!珍爱自己 珍爱身边的一切!祝我生日快乐!
December 08

男人更需要女人

从小男人就被要求成为强者,但是很多人都忽略了一点,男人首先是人,他们也要面对内心的孤独。正因如此,男人比女人更需要情感的呵护。  女人在很多时候比男人更坚强,更有韧性。因为女人终会成为母亲,会经历那个谁也无法替代的撕心裂肺的蜕变过程,男人却没有机会去体验,所以注定了他们一辈子只能当一个需要被呵护和疼爱的孩子。
  别看男人看起来那么光鲜强大,锐不可挡,越表现得坚强的男人其实私底下就越不堪一击,男人的伟岸和力量往往来自女人的爱。诗人雪莱在《给———》一诗中写到“天下再没有比对一位女子的初恋更灵巧的教师,会将男儿内心的一切卑污抑制下去,使自己拥有堂堂男人具备的一切。”
  男人需要以女人的爱情来获得生存的活力和创新的灵感,如果没有交际花陆小曼,徐志摩永远不可能写出“我只要你,有你我就忘却一切,……坐着谈也好,走道也好,上街买东西也好。爱是甘草,这苦的世界有了它就好上口了……”这样浓情蜜意留于后人世代传抄的情书范本。如果没有唐婉,介绍陆游的时候也只是潦草一句“一位怀才不遇的爱国诗人”而已,绝不可能有“红酥手,黄滕酒,满城春色宫墙柳。东风恶,欢情薄,一怀愁绪,几年离索。错!错!错!”如此的凄楚美绝。如果没有那些个缱绻红帐内的燕燕莺莺,柳永只会一辈子寂寂无名。故我们无比理解为什么温莎公爵会选择为了美人舍弃江山,而查尔斯王储何以对其貌不扬的卡米拉数十年如一日的痴情不改。

December 06

这个冬天好冷啊!!!

这个冬天好冷啊,真的好冷,那寒风刺骨的感觉胜过了往年,人活着到底为了什么,一个好朋友曾经这样问我,说实话我也不知道是为了什么,就是觉得很多时候都挺累的,不知道自己整天忙什么呢,今天去了法制晚报,不知道我将来的命运会怎样,也许吧~谁知道呢,我现在对前途越发的变得渺茫起来,如果一个人没有了理想那么他将一无是处,真的希望这个冬天早点过去,我想要属于我的春天

what do you live for?

someone just came up to me with this question "What do you live for? ". my answer is "I don't really know." It is not that I don't know the answer. I just want to cut the conversation short, because I know my answer is too complicated for somebody to understand it correctly. To be honest, deep down to my heart I think "I live for myself to learn and experience the life itself everyday, without listening to other people said to me what I can and what  I can't do ". so I live for something that I dont even know at first, it is on the way of my life, always new and freshing, no matter it is good or bad. Even I sit there and do nothing, it is still part of my experience for my life, it is not wasting time.

 

In my life, there are tons of things that I want, but they are not what I live for. They are things that make my life easier and more beautiful.  Here are some examples: families, friends, education,money and fames are some sorts of things that I have or want to have in my life. They can help me identify myself or distinguish myself in the crowd. I have my families and friends to love me and I can love for. I work hard in university as all my friends know, although I played like a crazy cat sometimes. why I work hard? I want to show people who don't know me that I am smart, I have the ability to learn things faster than other people. I worked hard for my job, and tried to get along with everybody, to make new friends and help other people.  These are things that would better my life, but they are not what I live for.

 

Some people might live theirlives for proving themselves to other people and diferentiating themselves by having high academic achievement. people might put you down and say to you "no you can't do it" and "you'll never make it" . Then you might try very hard to prove what they said are wrong. Think about it for one second, you know you can do it, why you have to spend your time to prove yourself  to other people? People don't have the right to tell you what you can or what you can't do. Especiallly for those people don't know you well. They should keep their mouth SHUT, when they are not asked for comments.

 

I guess I have to stop now, because I have too much to say, and if I keep typing, then I wouldn't know what I saying. so THE END for now.

 

Oh, it is FRIDAY!  wish you all have a good weekend!!!!!!

 
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